What has been your most recent epiphany?

Question: What has been your most recent epiphany!?

Epiphany being defined as a sudden realization or comprehension of the essence or meaning of something!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

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The meaning of love and how people see it!. I used to look at my friends and their relationships and trying to change mine!. When in reality the relationship i have with my boyfriends is so much deeper and srtonger than what they have!. I looked around for something not knowing exactly what i wanted when its beed in front of me the whole timeWww@QuestionHome@Com

when i realized i am really miserable in life and i have made it my goal to try and change it!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

That I have to accept my mother the way she is!. I will never, ever change her so I've got to stop wishing and hoping for a "normal" mother/daughter relationship!. Sad, huh!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

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That losing the 135 pounds that I did in the last 13 months hasn't changed who I AM!. I am the same person as I was when I was fat!. What changed was the people around me!. Some in a good way and some in a bad way!. The biggest change I see is in the men!. The men in my family don't treat me any different but the men in my community do!. Sigh!.!.!. It makes me want to just scream at them!.!.!."I AM THE SAME AS I WAS BEFORE!!!!!!!!" Men can be so shallow!. I am not saying all men mind you but the ones I am presently dealing with are sure acting that way!. I am thankful that the men in my family don't act that way to me!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

when i realized that blaming others wasn't the answer to my problemsWww@QuestionHome@Com