I want to die before anyone else i love dies?

Question: I want to die before anyone else i love dies!?

do you feel that way too!? that you dont want to live without the ones you love!.!. i hope to god that i die before the ones i love!. if my loved ones die before me, i would probably not live!.!. i would die from depression!.!.!.no lieWww@QuestionHome@Com

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Yeah, I feel the exact same way, but its because I never want to live without anyone missing, but I doubt that will happen!. It is sort of selfish of me, but it's hard not to wish that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I totally feel you!. I also hope to die with no pain!. I don't know if I can have both, but I hope I do!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

That's kinda hard on your loved ones don't you think, your death would hurt them!.!.!.no offence, but that would be selfish!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

You are either too romantic or wish you could see or feel people crying at the day you die!.

Insecurity baby, that's what you are: Too insecure!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I would never be able to live without the ones that I loved!. They make up my entire world and with them gone, it would all crash down!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

i feel that way too, i think its just fear of being without your loved ones, i feel like, its a pretty selfish thought though, because by us dying, then people that we love suffer our loss!.!. so i don't know, i think its better off to just pray that God keep all the ones we love to have a long happy life!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you can't be with the ones you love, honey, love the ones you're with!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

They live on in you!. It would be a shame to not let that go on!. Many of my closest friends have died "on me" and I remember them with fondness!. Enjoying the memory of the good times and having a smile for them!. It only natural!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

sometimes i do but i would rather wait!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I completely understand your feelings, I used to think that way too!. Problem is life just doesn't work like that and having loved one's die is a part of that life!. As much as I couldn't bare to grieve for my parents, my wife or my dog, It would cause me more pain to think that they would have to go through that pain on my account should I die first!. While it is an endearing sentiment, my advice is that you enjoy the company of all your loved ones all the time, because the time you have with them is not indefinite!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

who says there is pain in death!? And yes the first thing I thought about this was "SELFISH" kind of odd it does sound selfish but you need to ask youself what if they think the same about you!? Would you let them suffer just as you would if you died before them!? This is a true test of character!.

Truly it is selfish you would rather die before them to avoid seeing them die but in the process you put the same thing you wanted to avoid into their lives, your death just as if they died you would be sad and depressed if you died they would be sad and depressed!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Goodness, if I die before the ones I love, who is going to take care of them!?!?!?

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