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Question:Not trying to be mean but why do they look like they are from the 1800s? Is dressing plain part of the control?


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Not trying to be mean but why do they look like they are from the 1800s? Is dressing plain part of the control?

Polygamists do not want their women to compete with each other, as the 'choice" is always up to the man. There can be no competition between the women as it might upset the delicate balance of having multiple wives.

Also, should the women dress in ways that flatter themselves, they are showing too much concern for their own desires--they are expected to be more concerned with the man's desires.

Trying to NOT look sexy, I recon.

Because the polygamy fashion line hasn't come out yet!

The men dress the women like little girls because they like to be seen as a "FATHER" of their home, sick sh*t. Usually the women are handed over by their parents once they reach puberty anyways, and in a sense never grow-up in the westernized view of growing-up.

It is a modesty thing that is part of the religious and cultural belief system of most polygamous groups. The husband is the only one that should see them with their hair down. Long hair and keeping it bound up is also prevalent.
If you think about it it could be quite a turn on, going from virgin school marm look by day to lady Godiva at night from the mans view
I do also believe it is some serious control, a way of taking away the woman's individuality. I am thinking men are the main ones that are all happy about polygamy, I bet the wives want to take a chapter out of Lorena Bobbits tips for trimming the dog.
You have another post that hits it dead on, the women are to be subservient and childlike because the men insist on being in total control of ALL things as master/ father of their household.

Many religious sects view women as the cause of the downfall of mankind, because of Eve's actions in succumbing to temptation, then luring Adam to join her in sin. Women in these sects are not allowed to do anything to make themselves a temptation to the "righteous" men. Therefore plain, concealing clothing, no make-up, simple hair styles.

It is because they most often part of a cult. And their men want those women to have as little freedom as possible. And the men don't want their women to be catching the eye of other men. It is a form of control. It seems to work
It is all controled by men, for men, and women arn't more than a pocession like a dog or something. It is sick way to be

Your Q does not make sense. Polygamy and plain clothes!
So it should answer. Are they trying to show no interest in s-ex, is what I wonder.

To hide the poly-game or multi-game they are in.

....erm.
maybe its so's the neighbours dont cotton on to the fact that she's got three husbands
and another in the attic.

lucky girl.