Have you ever thought that love is not a totally overpowering and identifiable s

Question:but more of the feeling you have which you decide must be love?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: but more of the feeling you have which you decide must be love?

I thought that for most of my life but I also had a nagging suspicion that I was missing something. I also had a suspicion that there was more to relationships than I had experienced. Then one day my heart was opened by a transmission from a female and I knew love. Insights poured upon me about the nature of reality. 14 years of meditation prepared me, stilled my mind enough to receive this transmission and in two weeks I had more insights than in the 14 years of meditation. Everything comes into existence through love, love is always happening, fear and such dies in the process of change, but love is always new and fresh.

love is an emotion like all the rest, there is no mystical quality to it

If "the feeling you have which you decide must be love", is so different and powerful that you distinguished it as love - it therefore is overpowering!