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Question:I Want this older women very badly!!!!?
She lives a couple houses away from me.She is a single mom in her mid thirties. Every time I see her petite small tight body, a replica of the TaJ Mahal forms in my pants. As for myself, I am 19, 6'1, 195 pounds, but living in my parents house.
I talk to her only by, "Hi's". I think she digs me because one time I had a "small talk" session with her, and as I was talking, I notice she got a bit excited when I leaned in to close,towering over her. These are the only times we have spoken.
I don't think she's a slut, but I do think she would be willing to get some excitement back into her life, even If its with a 19 year old. After all, She's divorced, having to take care of 3 kids(toddlers)and is probably craving sex. I think is win,win. No one gets hurt,no adultery involved,no strings atached. Ladies,any suggestions on how to approach her? Keeping in mind she's a 36ish year old single mom, not a 20 year old slut.
Ladies how would you handle this


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She lives a couple houses away from me.She is a single mom in her mid thirties. Every time I see her petite small tight body, a replica of the TaJ Mahal forms in my pants. As for myself, I am 19, 6'1, 195 pounds, but living in my parents house.
I talk to her only by, "Hi's". I think she digs me because one time I had a "small talk" session with her, and as I was talking, I notice she got a bit excited when I leaned in to close,towering over her. These are the only times we have spoken.
I don't think she's a slut, but I do think she would be willing to get some excitement back into her life, even If its with a 19 year old. After all, She's divorced, having to take care of 3 kids(toddlers)and is probably craving sex. I think is win,win. No one gets hurt,no adultery involved,no strings atached. Ladies,any suggestions on how to approach her? Keeping in mind she's a 36ish year old single mom, not a 20 year old slut.
Ladies how would you handle this

Alright, Tank, listen.
A lot of people are answering your question emotionally. And unfortunately, most of them are women.

I don't care how hot this MILF is, I don't think you should pursue this woman, but for reasons that nobody else mentioned yet.

First, she has 3 kids. No matter how much she wants to bang you, her kids come first in her mind. Even if she says the kids won't be there...even if you love kids...even if the kids are older...it doesn't matter. This adds a factor in her mind that you couldn't even conceive of because you're a guy. Something gets switched on in the brain of women when they become mothers. Stay away if only for that reason.

But if you don't like that reason, here's another...

I assume you're smart enough to have sex with condoms, right? Imagine if the condom breaks or leaks or falls off...and she gets pregnant. She is a mother already, so it's safe to assume that's she's less likely to have an abortion if she gets pregnant. Now, I don't agree with abortions, and you may not either. But it is statistically true that women who already have kids are less likely to have abortions when they find out they're pregnant than women without kids. Are you ready to be some kid's father at 19???

And if those aren't good enough reasons, try this...

Imagine when things are done and you don't want to have sex with her anymore (and believe me, there WILL be a time). Dude, she knows where you live. And she knows your parents.

I have nothing against older women. In fact, older women are kinder when it comes to teaching young men about sex. (Women your age are not so patient. They're usually hypocritical too. They expect you to be well-practiced when you finally meet them, but at the same time, they balk at the fact that you slept around with many women before them. Go figure.)

Your best bet is to find someone else. There are plenty...and I mean PLENTY...of hot chicks around. Why waste your energy on this one with kids?

for some reason, i doubt any self respecting woman in her thirties is going to do a BOY in his late teen living w/his parents.

I think you need to grow up and stop lusting after someone old enough to be your own mother. Keep your little wee wee in your pants boyfriend and make all of us happy. LOL.

Oh, just go for it. She's at a sexually-mature age, and she might be very receptive to a little aggressiveness on your part. Just be straight forward and assertive.

I would say that she is old enough to decide what she does and does not do, if she were interested she would let you know. If she has only made small talk then she is not interested in a young man such as yourself. She, with three young kids, does not have time to play sex doctor with the kid next door. She probably works a lot and then takes care of the kids and then the house and puts up with the X, etc. I think she would be smart enough not to get involved with someone who lives down the street with his parents, it would not be a self respecting act for an older woman with children. Although, she may think about it and get excited at the thought, I don't think she is interested so telling you what you could say or do would only give you false hope and possibly a pain in her a**.

Much Easier and, far simpler. USE YOUR RIGHT HAND, to satisfy these urges.

Not as good as the real thing, of course, but better then meaningless, reverse Paedophilia images and Far Safer.

Firstly does she have a kid your age? Wake up dear!!

Seems you're attracted to her sexually. Like you said earlier she's not a slut but looks like you're already treating her like one in your fantasy..

Dont think its a good idea to take advantage of her being a single mom. If she really needs sex, it should be with someone much older.

Focus on doing your parents proud FIRST please..