Do you accept your life as it is or do you enjoy it?

Question:I never had a better choice at hand but to face what has been forced on to me by some cheats.
I had to deal with this fact that I got cheated because of trust. I get very angry with myself for not having seen it, no actually I saw it, I predicted it, but I always had a tag of being a very 'Proud' girl attached to me, so I thought let me introspect
and found to my alarm that I was not. Then I guess it was my weak point of giving allowances to the guilty, once again. That was a big fault.It was this 'Fault' of mine if I may say so, that I was always angry with, and I needed to forgive myself for that. I always blamed myself for all the mistakes, never liked passing the buck on some one else.
I guess then it was easy to forgive the guilty after I forgave myself, and then life is at peace with me and me too.
But I have lost the frevour for life. It is very dull, different and lethargic.
Do not be mistaken that I lack a good mutant life. I have a lot of good time with it, and I have not lost my age, but surely it is my frame and my nature which has been nurtured in such a way that it is best said, I must leave or else I shall make life miserable for others, which is not my desire.
So my gut feeling says I have let gone of this life of mine gently and gracefully, the little that is left I shall take it as it comes. I hope I have the strength to say nay to a second round, which I am not at all ready for and no bargaining here.

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I never had a better choice at hand but to face what has been forced on to me by some cheats.
I had to deal with this fact that I got cheated because of trust. I get very angry with myself for not having seen it, no actually I saw it, I predicted it, but I always had a tag of being a very 'Proud' girl attached to me, so I thought let me introspect
and found to my alarm that I was not. Then I guess it was my weak point of giving allowances to the guilty, once again. That was a big fault.It was this 'Fault' of mine if I may say so, that I was always angry with, and I needed to forgive myself for that. I always blamed myself for all the mistakes, never liked passing the buck on some one else.
I guess then it was easy to forgive the guilty after I forgave myself, and then life is at peace with me and me too.
But I have lost the frevour for life. It is very dull, different and lethargic.
Do not be mistaken that I lack a good mutant life. I have a lot of good time with it, and I have not lost my age, but surely it is my frame and my nature which has been nurtured in such a way that it is best said, I must leave or else I shall make life miserable for others, which is not my desire.
So my gut feeling says I have let gone of this life of mine gently and gracefully, the little that is left I shall take it as it comes. I hope I have the strength to say nay to a second round, which I am not at all ready for and no bargaining here.

This is a trick question. You can't really enjoy anything unless you've accepted it's state of existence. So the one word answer is "yes."

I have always enjoyed and still enjoying the life even gone threw bad times also,still believe in a happy and healthy life to enjoy it more and more.

I try to take it and enjoy it as it is because other have it wrose and I feel thankful for mine.

i enjoy mine the real and the other lol.....

You must first accept life and what it offers before you can enjoy it... so I accept first then enjoy...

YEP,,,,,

I enjoy life ,and to an extent except it the way it is....however I do try to change some things along the way....and while doing so im enjoying life...

I enjoy my life and I also accept it for what it is - whatever it brings.
There are always times in my life that I think 'oh, here we go', but getting through those times makes it all the worth while.
I do find though, since my daughter has turned teenager, the 'here we go' times seem to be coming more often, but I love her and love my life, so they are never that bad in the end.

I accept my life what it is so I can enjoy it.