How can I escape from this superficial la la land?

Question:try to find a good purpose in all you do. make the moments count. smile at a stranger in the checkout line. make small talk with a neighbor. reach out to people around you, ask how they are and mean it. you could make someone's day. that is not superficial. find the human connection. enjoy nature, appreciate beauty. buy less, compliment more, give away what you don't use, notice the weather, take a breath.
good for you for noticing the loop you are in, you can shift your view of things.
all the best to you

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: try to find a good purpose in all you do. make the moments count. smile at a stranger in the checkout line. make small talk with a neighbor. reach out to people around you, ask how they are and mean it. you could make someone's day. that is not superficial. find the human connection. enjoy nature, appreciate beauty. buy less, compliment more, give away what you don't use, notice the weather, take a breath.
good for you for noticing the loop you are in, you can shift your view of things.
all the best to you

you dont, everything is judged by how you look, wether you wear glasses, height, fashion sense, age, race, looks, weight, it never ends, some people are exceptional in the sense they see the inside of people, but not as many as most would hope

One can escape from land through Spirit.

If Odysseus can escape from the Land of the Lotus eaters, I'm betting you can escape your La la land. How badly do you want out? What's keeping you in?

Don't let the restrictions of society dictate the way you live, simple as that. Only do something because you really want to.

People usually see a problem if they have that problem...

Turn off your computer.

Find good friends that aren't all into the material things and live your own life as you see it fit and believe in yourself and listen to you and no one else .Trust in God that he will provide to you and your family . Good luck and God bless