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I hate life , its make me want to commit suicide. I hate humanity and their ways(good and bad). I hate my own humanity, sometimes I want to be a humanoid or a goddess( or something above human and human soceity). I hate how soceity expects you to want to be a drone and what to contribute to it. And also I hate how everyone has their own little agendas. And most of the time their agendas usually invade our private lives. Also I hate that when you don't have a social life, your consider odd or wierd. And the fact that soceity makes you want to feel tlike you want to be accepted by people. Also hate how when you have a feelings, society doesn't like they also want you fix it( even if soceity cause you to have those feelings). I also hate how people want to controls your life. To me, from now I hate humans and that human life is meaningless to me.Even my family is meaningless to me.I will never love a human being or ever desire to be with one(I'm asexual.)


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I hate life , its make me want to commit suicide. I hate humanity and their ways(good and bad). I hate my own humanity, sometimes I want to be a humanoid or a goddess( or something above human and human soceity). I hate how soceity expects you to want to be a drone and what to contribute to it. And also I hate how everyone has their own little agendas. And most of the time their agendas usually invade our private lives. Also I hate that when you don't have a social life, your consider odd or wierd. And the fact that soceity makes you want to feel tlike you want to be accepted by people. Also hate how when you have a feelings, society doesn't like they also want you fix it( even if soceity cause you to have those feelings). I also hate how people want to controls your life. To me, from now I hate humans and that human life is meaningless to me.Even my family is meaningless to me.I will never love a human being or ever desire to be with one(I'm asexual.)

I remember the suburbs. I work with zombies who remind me why I hated being raised there.

Suicide would be a boring way out though. Perhaps you and I could collaborate on how to encourage christians to bring about that self-fulfilling apocalypse that they seem to committed to.

That's to bad, cause we still love you.

i understand.

"life is a shiit sandwich and everyday you take another bite"

"hell is other people" - jean paul sartre

Really, you'll feel much better if you only focus on yourself and how you act/react and what you do/don't do.

I am sorry for what ever has done this to you. I wish there were someone who could talk to you. Things only seem this way to you because you have either been terribly disappointed or let down by others. If you are a young person, then know this: when you are older, things will not seem all that bad - you will be in charge of your life and you can do what you want to do with it.
If you are older, then think about this: Life is filled with disappointments. There are truly no easy ways out. You have to take responsibility in you life and make the best of it.

At any rate, it is heartbreaking to think of suicide. Life is too short as it is and there is so much out there to explore.
My heart goes out to you. Please Please seek help.

Welcome to the club sweetheart.

It sounds like you are very disappointed with life and how it goes for you. If you think about how self-destructive you are being to yourself, I think you'll come to realize that these feelings are not worthy of you. You are the one putting it all there (the hate, I mean). Life is what it is and it often appears as if it is something we don't want...but that is life. The best thing you can do for yourself is to start learning about love.
Love is the only answer and ultimately, you will get there.

The pendulum swings in opposite directions, but only can determine which way yours will swing for you. If you are hating everything, than you are only reinforcing it. The answer is to let all of your judgments go, release them and then see nothing wrong. All of our misery in life stems from our judgment of it. So release judgment, let GO of the expectations. Your disappointments derive from your expectations and when they are not met, you feel cheated.

I hope you will find the strength in yourself to be a better human being, and a better daughter of God, by opening up to who you are. Ask God for help and assistance in doing this.
I am NOT saying, become religious. I am strictly saying, open up to God. Invite God into your life personally and you will be transformed. You cannot head down this path forever.

And, suicide is not the answer. If you do this, you will be disappointed in YOU when you get to the other side and you do not want to experience this! You cannot "escape" from your responsibilities. This is the great lesson others who have committed suicide have found out. NOTHING changes on the other side. And then, you will have to face God and explain why you wasted your life rather than finding the strength to transform yourself into the loving being that you know you really are.

Love has nothing to do with sexuality, and if you choose to be asexual, then that is all good and well, just do not confuse sex with love. Sex is the ultimate act which demonstrates love between two people, but you can also demonstrate love in a million other ways that has nothing to do with sex. Love your life and be thankful for it, because it was given to you by God.
You can change your experience of life if you choose to, but first, you must change your attitude. Nothing will change in your life until you choose to relate differently. And nothing will change for you on the other side either. You will most likely come back and have to start all over again, and I am sure you don't want that! So running away is not the answer. Trying to escape is not the answer. Facing life and learning how to deal with life in a loving and compassionate way is the answer and the ONLY answer, here on this world, or there, in the other world. I just want to send you a warning, that taking your life will result in the most regretful situation you can put yourself into and will result in nothing more than deep regret. DON'T DO IT! I am not telling you this because it benefits me. I am telling you this because I have compassion for you and wish to see a young lady turn her life around and make something positive out of it. My words of advice for you have no benefit for me, for you alone are the one who must live with your own decisions. YOU alone are responsible for all the decisions you will ever make. Try to make better decisions. Discover what the source of your discontent is beneath the judgments. When you can do this, you will resolve all these other issues.

I agree with many of your points. However, this sounds like the rant of a teenage girl, who has no friends and no parental closeness, weak grades, and who is likely not the best looking or slimmest in her class. These feelings are completely normal, and will pass, or at least modify, as you mature. I think at one point or another, everyone feels this way. The hate you feel towards life is energy. That energy must be directed towards something that will fulfill you. Whether or not anyone cares. And dam them if they do! What makes You happy is what is important, not what society dictates. Just keep that in mind, and realize you are not alone in this, there are many that identify completely with you. And, great luck with your future!

It's hard to find your place in life. It makes you angry and depressed. But, there are a lot of good people in this world. I hope you find your place. I hated teachers, so I became one. I thought I could make a difference just a little bit more than the others. Now I know that it was because I had teachers who were disheartened with their choice. I have become a teacher's teacher as I have continued on in my years of teaching. I love to teach teacher's how to enjoy what they teach. It is very rewarding to see them light about about students' ability and love to learn. I hope you find your place. May I ask you to be patient? There is a lot of ignorance in the world. You just found out too early how the bad parts of life work.

Uh, look. I feel much like you. And I agree with the person who said that life is a s.h.i.t sandwich that you are forced to eat every day.

But I haven't committed suicide because I have managed to find some nice people and have developed a few hobbies (such as participating in this forum, which enables me to express myself just as I am and to help out other people a little bit in the process [nine percent of my responses are selected as best answers]). That's enough to keep me going.

Harleigh Kyson Jr.

Sounds like you're having a bad day. So sorry. Lots of people love you. My grandson is only 8yrs old. He has a bad habit of saying that he hates his life. Every time he says it I make him sit and write 5 things he loves about his life. I suggest you try it. If you have a roof over your head, food to eat, and a family to care for you, you have a lot to be thankful for.

Ouch. I hope that you love yourself. You are really hurting. I cannot understand you hurt. It is unique. In Spanish, you cannot say I am sorry only I feel for you. So I feel for you in you sorrow. hate=hurt. Find out who hurt you deeply. cry your tears out to a professional. You can eliminate that HURT. The energy that you use to hate can be eased into a positive energy for you enjoyment. Once you heal the hate will dissipate. I don't know that you can forget, but you can forgive yourself even if you did not hurt yourself. Go now and get the hurt healed. We are rooting for you!!! God and good be on your side.

Heyyy..Don't be a loser..Don't give up.Ignore those who try to discourage you..Love yourself first and foremost..Quitters never win and winners never win..So be a winner darling..

It's a pretty absurd world but people are not so bad when you really think about it .It's just the human condition really that is giving rise to such behavior and people are mostly trying their very bad to get by and get a life and be happy . There's a lot of ugliness out there but there's beauty and peace as well .