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Position:Home>Philosophy> Those of you who are extreme perfectionists - would you help me by answering thiQuestion:How has this search for the absolute perfection in others has it hampered you so that you have become your own skeleton of the fish on the plate you had prepared to eat...nothing but bones ans spines, which now you know will hurt your mouth, and everything it travels through, SHOULD YOU ATTEMPT TO SWALLOW IT...EAT IT! This is where this search of mine has led me. I can not even FIND what I searched for, because it is further becoming a fossil. To whomever this question applies, will you tell me your story? Thank you! G. Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: How has this search for the absolute perfection in others has it hampered you so that you have become your own skeleton of the fish on the plate you had prepared to eat...nothing but bones ans spines, which now you know will hurt your mouth, and everything it travels through, SHOULD YOU ATTEMPT TO SWALLOW IT...EAT IT! This is where this search of mine has led me. I can not even FIND what I searched for, because it is further becoming a fossil. To whomever this question applies, will you tell me your story? Thank you! G. Don't seek perfection in others, only in yourself. Let them find their own perfection. Maybe you'll run across someone who's imperfection will suit you. A friend and I were talking one day about 20 years ago about our husbands. She told me she couldn't stand it if her husband traveled as much as mine did. I replied that I'd have to kill my husband if he drank or gambled the way hers did. We concluded, in the negative juncture, that all men are @ssholes, and you just have to figure out which kind irritates you the least. I got a stupid "girlfriends are the best" kind of email a couple days ago, but the final sentence really rang a bell for me. Maybe it will help you: Never allow someone to be your priority, while allowing yourself to be his option. Perfection isn't required, but first position is. giving less of one. Must tell you this though Daeve, I am beginning to really appreciate being the perfectionist I am...next step will be turning Elitist! I get so tired of criticism upon criticism by people who seem to know it all, that I a m thankful I am as I am, FINALLY! Thank you, Daeve. Enjoy! Report It |
As for you The Grooves, better luck next time! Sorry I had you confused with the one who had a truly sensitive answer...it happens, this mistake of mine more times than I can tolerated . Report It
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