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Question:What makes you want to date a girl? What would make you like a girl, be in love with her? And what reasons may you not court a girl?


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: What makes you want to date a girl? What would make you like a girl, be in love with her? And what reasons may you not court a girl?

That she loves me & we just fit together like peices of a puzzle.

Well, I am married, so I will answer as if I wasn't.
I would not date ANY gal that smoked, drank, did drugs or was promiscuous. She would have to be neat and bathe daily; no make up; no high-faluting phoniness. Just simple and honest; a good personality.
Good looking, etc., is just frosting on the cake; nice, but not necessary.
I wouldn't care if she was black, yellow, red, white or brown; tall or short; thin is O.K., but not overweight.

her eyes and smile (and body has to look healthy), then her personality I enjoy laughing and conversing, eye contact is critical and very exciting, kissing while holding her close enough to feel her beating heart, honesty and trust no lying even if they are small ones...and a fiery passion/bitchy/confident attitude.

I don't like super whores, you know who you are

First of all she has to know that men are dumb effin jerks and know how to handle them. A woman who has that knowledge has more than three/quarters of the relationship on a strong foundation.
She has to have a heart. She has to have a faith in God based on the Judaic/Christian bible.
She has to have a good work ethic, and she has to have the ability to be able to manage " me ". Because if she can't then I'm wasting HER time.
Looks are important as well, I'm more inclined to raven black haired women who wear their hair long. The next would be a real red headed woman. Any size except obesity will do. I don't care if she's a half a foot taller than I am or a half a foot shorter, but she has to like sex as much as I do or there will be strife in the bedroom.
Ultimately the woman I would want is a woman who trusts me, no matter what or where I am. A woman that I am good enough for.

a) The raving of hormones inside.

b) Complete satisfaction and compatibility.

c) The absence of a) and b).

I am married but what I looked for in a woman is Faith in God, Strength in character, Honest, Polite, Sweet, but deep down a little naughty because that keeps things spicy and lastly looks. Looks for me are very low on the scale because people age and what is young and supple turns to old and saggy. It happens to all of us. I married the woman who fit the bill. Who happened to be beautiful but that was a plus to the line of benefits that she has.