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Question:this is just a question. Please ponder it... dont criticize just answer what you would feel or think about this match. Would this work or would this be a flop? The girl can love passionately but can a man return it back with passion and true love and trust?

Thanks.


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: this is just a question. Please ponder it... dont criticize just answer what you would feel or think about this match. Would this work or would this be a flop? The girl can love passionately but can a man return it back with passion and true love and trust?

Thanks.

A 27 year old virgin and a father figure hmm works for me.

why not?

Research indicates a 15 year difference produces the most children.

"Soul Mates and Twin Flames," Elizabeth Clare Prophet,
"Sacred Psychology of Love," Marilyn Barrick, Ph.D.,
"Sexual Force or the Winged Dragon," O. M. Aivanhov.

flop man it won't work she will cheat that man and ran off just like his ex-wife did.

yes. Whether the relationship will be sustained is like everything else-in the lap of the gods.

yes. it can be happened. l know couple of cases where a 60 yrs old got married with 24 yrs girl after giving the divorce to her 54 yrs old wife soon after celeberating silver jubilee of wedding. it take all sort of people to make this world. but in my opinion these types of relations never last for a longer period.

The mind of the past is ungraspable
the mind of the future is ungraspable
the mind of the present is ungraspable

first u tell me what u hav to do with that man n girl............
or else u r that gurl...........then dont do this yaar ...........buddhe ke sath chee chhee

Hey Im in a similar position but all I can say is its possiblle but if you go lookong out for it chances are youll repeat the same mistake. Socialise and just let fate do the rest. meanwhile keep occupied with your hobbies etc.

There is no reason that I can think of that they should not make a go of it, good luck. He is a very lucky man in deed if this comes about.

All that starts well ends well .All are estimations .Not sure about the future .As such there is nothing wrong but thinking makes it so .

I think it could happen if there were the right situation but I think he's in lust and in need of control. He has chosen someone young and inexperienced. After the average 20 year marriage, the guy is usually about 40- 50ish. Middle age crazy.... can't afford a new play car... get a virgin.

Im just say'n...

I think you are thinking wisely. It is possible for both in the starting to fall in love and develop passion. However, the age and mentality between the age gap will show up and then it may create a unbridged canyon between both.

everything is possible in this world.
Its love & trust one desires & if a man is divorced after 20 yr of marriage...
& finally realize what went wrong in his married life ..
later decides to marry a virgin girl after analyzing all the reason of his divorce....
i think he can be happy with this new girl if she satisfies him mentally,physically & emotionally all together.....

keep smiling

dont get involved with divorcee. it is more of lust than love the girl is in pitiable condition,dont exploit her.

God has made male in such a way that this type of love can occur at any stage of life but very few only boldly face it and make it successful.
It happened, it happens and it will happen in this materialized world.
It is very much true, believe it or not.

of course it's possible

Yes.

Yes, it is possible. And of course, it would depend on the character of the man and the woman. But love is not just a feeling; it is a commitment. The difference in age and experience might certainly present some difficulties in marriage, but yes, I believe that it is possible to overcome these and have a lasting marriage.

Love is blind and no one is exception to it , but the question is whether it whither the trials and tribulation of life given your unique situation . If you feel you have a matured relationship without ruining her future , why not go for it ?.


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love sees no barriers
be it caste colour creed or age.

Why not? Loves knows not the age. A man who has been wronged in the previous marriage, will need the comfort of love all the more than a young man, uninitiated to love and marriage. I am of the view that he will make a good husband of himself to this 'virgin' girl.

it's a worry that she's 27 and still a virgin. unless she's religious and abstinent. in which case...DONT TAKE HER SEX!
hahah.
love comes in many forms. my dad fell in love with my mother after a 20 year marriage. given they're only 8 years apart, they're still very much in love after all these years.
if you think you can make it work, then go out there and make it work. you shouldn't get guidance from complete strangers. imagine how you'd feel if you chose not to try with her because of what some mindless tools said on yahooanswers, and she turned out to be the one you were supposed to spend your life with.

It doesn't a matter of age.
it will happen at any age...
But, beware of con men who are hidding under the mask of love...
If that girl(you)really love her life and intelligent,
she may try to contact the Ex -wife of that person..
Ex- wife may have a different opinion.
she is the right person to tell about your future..
life is once .
Why should take too much chance..?
Best of luck

Some say love is just a chemical.
Others say it is just an idea.
I say it is what you do that matters, not what you feel or say.

Anything is possible. However, the match depends on many things; one can be a fit fifty year old or a fifty year old going on seventy - a twenty seven year old woman can be a shock to the system if the man is not fit. Is the girl timid or prudish or athletic and outgoing; what are the levels of maturity and emotional compatibility; are we looking at a serious relationship or just a flash in the pan to cure the mans loneliness after the divorce.

Only the people involved can work it out and what happens then my defy anyone's expectations.

Peace

Strange is love and stranger are the ways of lovers.Yes,you can do it.Bless you.