How Do you Find a Good Godly Man?

Question:I mean a guy that believes in God has a good heart and soul, and is just plain decent?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I mean a guy that believes in God has a good heart and soul, and is just plain decent?

Look for:

A man who loves what is right and true above self and all else, including a woman. He is reasonable and patient vs emotional. He especially loves children because they are more fully human than most adults, and never stands so tall as when he stoops to the aid of a child. His love of God comes first, and because of this God gives him the real love that he needs for a true woman. A true woman recognizes this kind of man, and he asks her to join him in his journey, not the other way around. She is happy to add herself to his life; he does not put her on a pedestal. He knows and she recognizes that the true harmonious order is God, man, woman and children, and he builds his home and future on this principle.

Rare indeed, and a real threat to feminists.

At your service.

try a church of some sort

at church

Try talking to people in your Sunday school classes and be social at church functions. I'd think that would be your best bet.

Since the trait of a man is in his walk, not in his talk, go where "good Godly men" walk . . Look for men donating time to charities, philanthropic efforts, youth groups, shelters, and/or animal rescues.

In other words, visit places where the traits of a "good man" are present, and you're more likely to find one.

They are dead.

No man is ever "a good Godly man" who genuinely "has a good heart and soul, and is just plain decent." I know I sound rather jaded, but the truth of the matter is...... people are only human. All of us. With very human frailties. Don't expect a perfect person and you'll get along with whomever you choose to love very nicely.

By his deeds to other and his great contribution to this world to make a better place to live for this generation and the next generation.

You have to test his faith and his obedience to God. He must love all in a same manner as Christ loved the church. He must know when to be humble, he must not lash out in brute anger. he must be kept trustworthy. You must love God more than him or the love will turn to hate.

Leave it to God.

In none of the popular places ?

That seems easy - go to church. A much tougher search, in my opinion, is to find good decent people anywhere ELSE.

He'll find you if he's in God's plan for you when the time's right. Until then you just have to live your single life. Don't settle. Make sure you're a woman of God and he'll bring you one of his men love. Good luck sweetie!

Don't look for him at church. There are as many "Good Godly men out there who have been turned off by the hypocrisy of the church. An example would be that most Church's' have not lifted a finger to help end the war. People live in wealth here in the States while people are starving elsewhere. If you want to meet good godly people you must be one yourself. You need to organize a food drive or stop the war campaign to meet the others that you seek. They will come, but don't be surprised to find that many will be women.