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Question:Reason why I am asking is because I don't have that type of personality and it really bothers e that people can be so fake to each other. I don't want to be a part of it. I really don't want to but I have no choice but to be around it especially since I'll have to get a real job soon after college. So how do I deal with this? It's driving me loco...


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Reason why I am asking is because I don't have that type of personality and it really bothers e that people can be so fake to each other. I don't want to be a part of it. I really don't want to but I have no choice but to be around it especially since I'll have to get a real job soon after college. So how do I deal with this? It's driving me loco...

Yes, there are a lot of people that are full of it.... that's life.. learn to cope with it. When you finish college and get a real job.. you better learn to play the game if you want to succeed. Good luck kiddo!!!!

Nothing you can do. Just ignore it and get on with your life. Why getting angry about something you dont have control over?

There's a lot of fake people around. But what you can do is be genuine to people around you and set up an example.

I can't stand fake people. Just be yourself and everything will work out fine.

Everyone is full of ****, including you and I, we all live our lives on false precepts and false hopes whether consciously or not, the more you think about it, the more it drives you mad, then they label you a uhhh nut case, you either fit it and be full of **** or go mad fighting it

If you realize that people around you are fake and you are not one, you keep looking for genuine people..There are many genuine people and you should take the trouble to cultivate them.It is worth it.

Just stay true to yourself. The fakes and players will eventually be found out and not succeed as well as you.

Yes...

Wow!! I thought you would have realize by now that eveyone has to go to the cann soon or later..

No... it's not just you... there are lots of people who are full of themselves out there... but hey... not all people are like that...

Some people are superficial and shallow. They put on bravado acts because they want to SEEM "together" and "sorted"... its usually those sort of people who hide the biggest insecurity's. Feel sorry for them! Fake, shallow people are hiding their own inadequacies. They tend to be very materialistic and put on an act. They just want to impress. If you act unimpressed they will "move on" trying to find "fans" who will be impressed! They seem to want a fan club!

You couldn't possibly know this. Nor could I.

To suggest that others are fake is also to imply that you are genuine, sincere or honest -- authentic. I doubt that. No one in any society has that luxury.

Of course, you could work alone. You could start a business and not have to tolerate others and only keep those around that you like. You could marry for money and limit the number of fake people that you dislike. There are options.

You could change your program/major and find something that will allow you minimal interaction with others.

You could also accept that in social situations that many factors will influence how people behave, what they say, what they don't say and acknowledge that you likely do it to. When your professor does something stupid, do you tell him/her? Are you honest, or are you fake with them?

You are constipated with all the garbage that you feed yourself with, so just take paraffin wax and drink a little I guess that should do the job of clearing your mind a bit.

I became a crackpot so I don't have worry about people and all there garbage and what they think
All so by me saying say this to people that I am a crackpot if I make a mistake at any time becase I am not perfect it dose not mater for I am a Crackpot and have told then this.

If you think you are not being "fake" to some degree than you are probably delusional yourself.
Everyone has things that they do not share with others and I am less likely to trust some one that claims this is not the case with them.
It seems you are willing to judge others by a standard that does not apply to you, although I will readily agree that some, when compared to most, are worse than others, it does not change the fact that everyone does it.
Some do it intentionally some are not even aware to what degree they do it.
But it has been my experience that we all put on a mask when we face the world at large, and we do it to protect ourselves.