How am I suppose to handle being with a guy that every girl wants?

Question:dating my guy is similar to dating a rock star...he is so popular and is wealthy...he's not exactly pefect either...hes real flirty and friendly and basically a "ladies man", I think he even cheated on me, anyway he keeps hounding ME saying "he loves me" and I'm the only one....I want to dump quick, but he keeps calling me, trying to sweet talk me, he knows I'm a nice person and gullible..how do I stop being a fool

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: dating my guy is similar to dating a rock star...he is so popular and is wealthy...he's not exactly pefect either...hes real flirty and friendly and basically a "ladies man", I think he even cheated on me, anyway he keeps hounding ME saying "he loves me" and I'm the only one....I want to dump quick, but he keeps calling me, trying to sweet talk me, he knows I'm a nice person and gullible..how do I stop being a fool

first of all nice name... ha but yeah bein a guy i know exactly how it is assuming your young, he's not at all looking for a long relationship and probably simply likes your for your looks. However he wants to stay with you most likely because he knows that as long as your "together" he will have somebody that he can ALWAYS be with, just in case he doesn't have a flirt buddy at the time. Just tell him that you don't wanna date right now but if you guys can just be friends for a while then once you rrrrealllly get to know who he is you can decide. This will give you time to
a. actually figure out who he is
b. get a little distance between you two which will make leaving him easier.
c. just play it out how you feel

maybe he sees you as a challenge either stick to him like glue or just dump iether way hell get the message

Tell him to put up or shut up. Tell him you want to get married. Then you'll have him a la Heather Mills.

And if he mentions a pre-nup, tell him you don't believe his love is sincere if he's already planning the divorce.

By the way, what does this have to do with philosophy?

I would put this in the relationships section,but I had a bf that had girls constantly calling him/txting him,dropping by,everybody adored him - old ladies,young ladies,men everyone! he was such a nice/affable person to everyone.
I could'nt take being with someone that wanted by everyone without feeling replaceable even though im not a jealous type - I don't know many that could.

IF THERE'S NO TRUST IN THE RELATIONSHIP ;;;IT'S NOT TRUE LOVE;;;FORGET HIM...

This can be philosphy but this really isn't. First of all, just leave him if your uncomfortable.

Think hard. How attractive would this guy be to you if he were penniless? How attractive would he be if he was very plain to look at.

I think you stand to gain everything by dumping him. Seriously, he is wasting your time.

Tell him in no uncertain terms that you have decided this relationship is not for you. You don't have to even get into why. Ask him not to call you any more. Once you set the rules, if he breaches that, call the cops. Manipulators have a wide suitcase of games to pull out in times of rejection.

Trust your gut. It will never lie to you.

And next time go into the relationship area to ask such a thing, k?