A guy likes me but I am out of his element?

Question:this rich, gorgeous man wants to sleep with me, I'm ugly as hell...he specifically told me he's only looking for a "good time"..I want to be with him, but why would he want to mess with an ugly girl? fellas have you messed with a girl beneath you? why?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: this rich, gorgeous man wants to sleep with me, I'm ugly as hell...he specifically told me he's only looking for a "good time"..I want to be with him, but why would he want to mess with an ugly girl? fellas have you messed with a girl beneath you? why?

You have really low self esteem.

It doesn't surprise me that your sign in name is hurt girl - you are about to get another hurt to add to your list! Sleeping with a guy that just wants a 'good time' and you are questioning his reasons means you care - so don't go there you are going to get hurt.

I think the guy would say they mess with a girl who THINKS they are beneath them because they are gullible and vulnerable and easy to manipulate and hurt. A girl with high self esteem wouldn't consider anyone beneath them PLUS they would either be happy to be with the guy for a 'good time' and not need to question it here or would not be happy with that kind of arrangement and relationship and not even be in the predicament you are in.

So unless you want to be hurt then get away from him and people like him and stay away!

You can probably find a good looking guy who wants more than just a "good time." Run away from this one.

Since he 'only wants a good time' he will sleep with anything in an upright walking position. Please... don't give him the time of day. You are worth way more than that. Please don't say, that you're worth is wrapped up in sex.

#1 Repeat "I am pretty"
#2 Repeat " I am lovable"
#3 Repeat " A man will love me for me, and only then will I allow myself to sleep with him. I refuse to sleep with someone who does not love me."
#4 Repeat "I value myself and I am not beneath or above anyone."
Good luck! Watch the DVD The Secret.

From someone who's slept with plenty of rich guys, make sure you get some of his money first.

He told you he's "only looking for a good time," so don't expect to fall in love, because he obviously don't even treat you with the respect that human beings deserve.

As Ivanna Trump says, "Girls, don't get mad - get everything!"

Because you are not ugly and he is a callous jerk. Stay far, far away from this guy; he only wants to take from you, and doesn't care that he will hurt you.

Sounds like he's the ugly one....a pretty face does not a pretty girl make. True beauty lies in the heart...follow your heart, and leave the ugliness to the one nighters. You'll feel much better about yourself in the morning.

There was one guy who serenaded me and listend to everything I said, that only to say that he realy loved me to go to bed and make love to him, but I felt, I was so terrible and most ugly, however, I still got into bed, and felt the joys of sex, and it was fantastic.

I know now that some guys like to mke love, not with the great beauties, but those who are most ugly, as most people are, and these guys are real great buys as it is their thought that people are not made to be beautiful, and to be beautiful is for those who feel that humanity is not fragile and weak.

If he wants to sleep with you, you can't be all that unattractive.
If you also are "only looking for a good time", - fine.
If you want more out of a relationship, pass it up.
It's your choice.

I'm troubled by that "messed with a girl beneath you".
We guys have a saying:
"Ugly women appreciate it more."
If you offer the better experience,
you've got more value than you think.
Don't undervalue yourself.