I don't have stage fright, or anything, but why am I still not outgoing?

Question:Honestly to be outgoing you have to push yourself to be around other people. I don't know how old you are or what your situation is but I will suggest a few options: Moving to a new place is a great way to get yourself more outgoing because you will be force to talk to other people. It should be a place far from everyone you know, somewhere where you don't know anyone there. You could try going to a new school, or college for that matter. Get a new job. Anything that you will be force to meet new people. It will be hard but, you will learn a lot about life and yourself.

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Honestly to be outgoing you have to push yourself to be around other people. I don't know how old you are or what your situation is but I will suggest a few options: Moving to a new place is a great way to get yourself more outgoing because you will be force to talk to other people. It should be a place far from everyone you know, somewhere where you don't know anyone there. You could try going to a new school, or college for that matter. Get a new job. Anything that you will be force to meet new people. It will be hard but, you will learn a lot about life and yourself.

maybe its just not ur personality. some ppl r just born crazy and outgoing. or maybe ur just not used 2 it. just have some fun.

It could be a lot of reasons, personal experiences, familial influence, etc, but I think the main one is probably your temperment you inherited. You should read this book that I have and it is great. It tells about the 4 main temperments (peronalities) and the blends these four make. It might give you some insight on why you are not outgoing. Why You Act The Way You Do by Tim Lahaye. Enjoy.