I finally got the phone # of the guy i have a crush but i feel nervous and dont

Question:

I finally got the phone # of the guy i have a crush but i feel nervous and dont know what to talk about?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Relax. Be yourself. Do more listening than talking.

Good topics to ask him questions about are:

1. Music
2. Sports
3. Food
4. Favorite class/job/movie
5. Does he have brothers or sisters
6. What does he normally do on weekend

Being nervous is natural. Remember, not everyone will hit it off. But you will never know if you and your crush will hit it off if you don't take a chance.

Grab your favorite drink. Put on your favorite music. Practice the "message" you will leave if you get his voicemail. Take a deep breath. Smile (it shows through the phone). Pick up the phone and make the call.

What's the worse that could happen?

1. He doesn't realize how unique and special you are? His loss. Move on.
2. He does realize how unique and special you are? You realize he isn't for you. Move on.
3. You both realize you both are unique and special? Enjoy!

If you get his voicemail, leave a simple, polite message... and your phone number so he can call you back.

Wait for his call. If he doesn't call back in 3 days... try again.

Crushes should be enjoyable, not stressful. Have fun and no matter what, remember how great you are. It pays off in the long run.