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Im the middle child in my family!.!.!. and i always feel invisible!!!!

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second youngest out of five!.!.!. i disassociate myself with everyone but always have a presence and add my bit into conversations!. but that is only because everyone in my family is crazy!. my relationship with the eldest siblings is strongest and my middle,youngest siblings only come to me when they need help with something!.!.!. how do you determine if my answer is better than another!?Www@QuestionHome@Com

I`m the baby of the family at my house!. I have one older brother!. my parents spoil me allot more then they spoil him and they also show more affection towards me!.

Although, I always feel inferior to him and feel like they love him more!. Although I get shown more affection I can`t help but think they love him More than me!.

The middle child of the family is usually the most unnoticed and feel left out!. Which really sucks =(Www@QuestionHome@Com

Yes, I am a middle child!. Older brother, and younger sister!. There was only three of us, yet I did somehow felt invisible but by mother at times I was well noticed to be special!. She would cook my food separate from by other siblings, because I am finicky!. I also was the first to complete college in my generation or in my family!. I was always the quiet one and very laid back!. So when, I go home now to visit, because I have no family where I live at now!. I manage to get more attention now than I did when I was growing up!. Now there is only my sister and I because my brother past away!. Which now makes the elder, Yet I don't feel like I fit this slot!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Im the youngest out of two, I seem to get more attention than my brother, maybe because my mom thinks Im still young and need looking after whereas my brother is old enough to look after himself!.
My mother was a middle child like you and she said she also felt invisible but not as much as her older sister, she said her younger sister got all the attention, then she was next and her older sister got the least attention!.
I guess it depends on the parentsWww@QuestionHome@Com

im the oldest of!.!.!. 6!? (split parents) At my dads i was looked at as the grunt, i was the older one with the car so push him around kinda thing!. I was also the only boy there (long story short dads my momish thing i hate my family there!.!.!.) so i was abused as others watched to young to do anything!. I moved out a year ago!. At my moms i am basically the dad since my stepdad died in Iraq i have taken control of the caos!.!.!.er!.!.!. house!. As for my siblings im not close to any of my step siblings (although they'd like to think i am) but my blood sister i watch over with my life shes a frosh in high school (im college frosh btw) so be forewarned soon to be bf's we have one of the stronger bonds in my family (outta six kids she would be 3rd oldest) and the only other bond i really keep in my family is with my half brother (mom and stepdads youngest of all in kindergarden) i watch over him like i do my sister but i havent had the time with him that i have my sister i have barely seen him ever :\ as for my view on my family its chaos with no hopes for redemption ill protect them (god knows they need it) but in the end theyre holding me back from the greatness i could be (as i believe familys tend to do with 1st borns so BE WARNED!!!)



so yea!.!.!.!. thats bout it why do you ask!? :]Www@QuestionHome@Com

I am the oldest!. Holla!! The first born!.

But I tell you, you dont need to be the middle oldest or youngest to feel invisible!. Trust me!.!.!. I know from experience!. My mother did not raise me!. She did raise my sister!. Wow, we both are totally different people!. I am one who just wants sooo much out of my life and I want to be successful!. She was a teenage mother!. My grandmother raised both me and my cousin!. We both work, successful college graduated and I am just doing my own thing!. I am very close with her and I thank God that she raised me!. If my mother raised me I do not know where I would be today!. However, because I do not live with my mother and sister!. They seem to treat me like an outsider at times!. Many times!. So you don't need to be in the middle to be invisible to your mother and father!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I consider myself the middle child because I have a younger brother but I am a twin!.
I definitely act as the middle child and I guess I'm the more disruptive, argumentative, immature person; your typical middle child syndrome lol!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I'm the oldest and I've always been the independent one who wants no help from anyone else in the family!. I pretty much always went my own way!.Www@QuestionHome@Com