Protecting my new family.... 10 pts.?

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I'm now back together with my son's mother!. She's been letting other dudes know that she's no longer interested and wants to build her family with me!. There's one guy who just don't get the message and is sending threatening messages to her phone!. I'm not a violent man anymore, so I've asked this dude twice in a nice, gentleman's manner to just be easy, accept that it's over and move on and leave us alone!. Doesn't seem to get the message and made physical threats towards me!. Those who know me that I'm not violent because when I actually lose my temper, it's lights out!.!.!.literally!. I black out and don't know what happens until it's over!. I've hurt people in the past and cannot afford to go down that path again!. Is there any way, short of calling the law, that this can be handled!. If the law gets involved, I fear that things will turn for the worse!. This dude is part of the "Stop Snitchin'" mentality!. Any suggestions would be sweet!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:

I think you and your family should get a restraining order against him!.
This way, he will have to obey the law or get penalized for it!. also, change your phone number so that he can no longer get in contact with you!. (And the restraining order so that he can't be physically near you or your loved ones)!.

I can see how willing you are to make things work!. Congratulations in changing your violent ways, and seeking other alternatives!. Good looking out for you and your family's well being :)Www@QuestionHome@Com

Keep this in mind: You cannot control others!.!.!.you can only control your reaction to others!. If your sons mother does not want to recieve messages from this person, have her change her number or call and find out how to block his calls!. If he attempts other means to get in touch with her, advise she talk to the police so that they can "speak" to him or get a restraining order!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Given what you say, and agreeing that you cannot control the actions of others then for the good of you and your family move well away!.Www@QuestionHome@Com