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Position:Home>Genealogy> I don't want to get over my uncles death ?Question: I don't want to get over my uncles death !? my uncle died nearly 2 months ago I have been extremly sad over it and have been crying almost every night n don't want to let go because I don't want to let him go n just want him back n can't imagine life without him n because he had a tragic death it's impossible n I know he cud have still bn alive please help any advice Www@QuestionHome@Com
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: You won't forget him even if you keep beating yourself up by replaying misery tapes over and over again!. I lost my favorite uncle years ago, unfairly it seemed to me (long story) but in overcoming my anger and bitterness, I found my uncle was still with me- but only after I let go of the negative stuff!. Seriously, he's there, you just can't really know it until you are willing to let go of him!. Sounds wrong, but that is really how how it works!. Best wishes and my sympathies to you!.Www@QuestionHome@Com Don't worry it's okay to feel the way you do!. Little by little, you will cry less often and remember more of the happy times with your uncle!. His death will become just one sad memory among many happy memories!. There is no set time when you're suddenly supposed to move on and let go!. I believe everything happens for a reason, even if we don't understand it!. Everything is in God's hands!. Just take it easy on yourself and you will start to feel a little better when you're ready!.Www@QuestionHome@Com Don't be upset that you lost him, be happy for all the time you had him for!. The exact words {nearlly} that were said at my Grandmas funeral!. Bu if your constantly getting upset over this i think that it is best to talk to family about it, it will help if you can talk to people the same age as you, and who perhaps have the same feelings, when you express it, it helps you feel better, it is very hard to come to terms with your loss, and you can never let go, ever, he will always be in your heart :)Www@QuestionHome@Com I went through the same thing when my uncle died!.!.!.it has been almost 2 years and i still get sad thinking about it!. Seeing as it has only been 2 months since your loss i wouldnt worry about not being over it yet!.!.!.it takes time!. I felt like getting over it ment that i would forget him!.!.!.but it doesn't!.!.it just means that you accept what happened in life and can move on, still remembering him!. If you need to talk feel free to email or IM me on yahoo!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com Its hard to let go!. My boyfriend died when I was 18 years old and I still havent forgotten him!. You dont have to "get over death" because you never really will!. Just try and focus on his life and what he meant to you, rather than his death!. Talk to family about him!.!. keep him alive in your heart :) Hope this helpsWww@QuestionHome@Com When you grow up you'll realise you didn't need him really half as much as you think you do!. He was good to you maybe but you're not his kid!. What about your own mother or father or your own grandparents!? just concentrate being good for them now and no more crying o!.k! i'm sure thats not what your uncle would've wanted you doing!.Www@QuestionHome@Com Im so sorry to hear of your sorrow!. You probably need a bit of counselling to deal with your grief!. Unfortunately it is something you have got to try to get over!. Im sure your uncle wouldnt want you to suffer like this!. Get some help hun and try to pick up the pieces again!. Good Luck!.Www@QuestionHome@Com I'm so sorry! His memory will never leave you heart!. He would not have wanted you to suffer!. He would have wanted you to Remember him as he was!. Think of how GREAT he was! He will ALWAYS be with you! Once again, So sorry!Www@QuestionHome@Com Well 1!. I'm really sorry for your loss!. 2!. What i did when my grandpa died i thought of really good things and just thought its not the end of the world it a whole lot better than that!.Www@QuestionHome@Com You will never forget him you will just remember him with warmth and affection as time goes on!.Www@QuestionHome@Com |