Someone Help with Finding My Dad?

Question:

Someone Help with Finding My Dad?

My father was 15 and my mom was 16.....pretty simple. Dad split.

I found out not to long ago that my father, when he was in his late 20's, came back to my mom and told her he made a mistake and he wants to be a part of my life...he was getting married and having another baby.....she told him a bunch of explicatives and off he went never to be heard from again. Fast forward to now...

I have a great step father whom I wouldnt trade for the world and I have a brother. I am polar oppisites with both of them.

I am now 32 and I have been married 10 years and I have 3 beautiful children.... I have been thinking about meeting my dad for about 5 years now without the courage to do so.... Maybe nows the time.

Can someone help out as im not savy enough to find him...I would pay but I dont want to be taken for my money.

His name is Chris Cornel Allen (hope thats how its spelled) he would be 47 born in Pa, lived in warminster PA around 1973-74 for a time and I think moved south?

Thanks !!!!!

Additional Details

8 months ago
Well..I quized my mom this morning and I got more hits... He was born Sep 1958 which makes him 48 not 47. He has/had brother Richard Allen (Florida?) and Tom Golden (Pa?)

His mom is Betty Allen, died in 1996 (Pa).

My dad was in the Army. Hes not listed on my Birth Cirt.

Amazes to me that my mother held alot of info from me, im assuming since its Thanksgiving she feels more compelled to tell me? I didnt ask her why she didnt say before now..she always avoided the talk. Its to close to a family holiday to start a fight so Im thankful I got some more info.....

Thanks for all the help Guys I appreciate it!

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: 8 months ago
Well..I quized my mom this morning and I got more hits... He was born Sep 1958 which makes him 48 not 47. He has/had brother Richard Allen (Florida?) and Tom Golden (Pa?)

His mom is Betty Allen, died in 1996 (Pa).

My dad was in the Army. Hes not listed on my Birth Cirt.

Amazes to me that my mother held alot of info from me, im assuming since its Thanksgiving she feels more compelled to tell me? I didnt ask her why she didnt say before now..she always avoided the talk. Its to close to a family holiday to start a fight so Im thankful I got some more info.....

Thanks for all the help Guys I appreciate it!