VERY EMBARRASSING DANCE QUESTION :)?

Question: VERY EMBARRASSING DANCE QUESTION :)!?

Alright, it's going to kill me to say this, but im going to say it anyway because it should be entertaining to, whoever is reading this!.!.!.
im 15 going to a sweet 16 and as dumb as this sounds i don't know how to dance, friends tell me the guys just chill when the girls do all the workk, or if i should just not even worry about it, because i know i'm going to get asked to dance because i'm close with the people there!.!.!.so if anyone has any help on maybe not how to dance, just idea's lol!.!.
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Oh man, I wish I could help you in person! I've taught a really awkward guy how to dance and he thanks me to this day!. What can I say here!? The lazier you are on the dance floor, the more a girl will insist you move it sometimes! Playing it cool is the wrong thing to do!. Girls love guys who shake it, even awkwardly!. Come to the party with the attitude that you don't know how to dance, but you're going to get down and learn something and everyone will enjoy it! First, give yourself a little pep talk and know you're going to have fun!. Find the beat!. It's easier to keep the beat if you also pay attention to a secondary beat!. Move one part of your body, your feet, your hands, whatever to the beat and another (like your head) to the secondary beat!. Dance symmetrically, then asymmetrically!. You know how a beat goes for 4 counts!? Do a movement for two counts on your right side, then switch to your left for the other two counts!. The next time, do it on your right side for two, your left for one, then switch to right again!. There are different ways to dance asymmetrically and you'll figure them out!. Move against yourself!. It's what really makes someone a good dancer!. You know those exercises people can do at home with no equipment, like pulling a towel across their back with both hands at the end of the towel and just pulling against their own strength!? You basically resist yourself!. A lot of people on the dance floor have no concept of this and just use music as an excuse to flail about all willy nilly, but it's what makes your movements- no matter how ridiculous- cool as heck! You move against yourself!. Practice with something small, like lift your arm up, but at the same time, move muscles that would pull it down!. Now I really wish I could show you what I'm talking about!.!.!. Michael Jackson moved against himself as well as every great hip hop dancer you've laid eyes on!. Resist flailing!. Be in control of your movements!. Don't just lift your arms, lift them to exactly where you want them to go!. Picture a grid around your body!. Make it any color you want!. Make the squares as large as you want!. Move different parts of your body and remember where they were in the grid, then try to move them in the exact same place they were!. Your body will remember and you'll feel it when you get it right!. Most of all, admit your vulnerability!. Tell the girls you're embarrassed, but you'll try and TRUST ME they'll be all over you!!! They'll giggle, hug you and do whatever they can to make you more comfortable!. Engage many girls in dance and they'll love it!. Flirt with them on the dance floor and be silly!. Turn around and shake your booty at them!. Spin them around, and let them spin you!. Dip then!. Do the bump! Do sport poses, like you're getting ready to throw a football, then switch to being the guy up to bat, then bowl!. They'll love it! Try not to leave anyone out!. Grab that chubby girl and drag her on the dance floor too!. Tell her you need the practice!. After all, you know what it feels like to be worried in a social situation!. Good luck!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

If you're talking about modern dance (like what you might see in a club), then yes, if the dance floor is crowded, then the girl will do much of the work!.

However, if it's more of a traditional social dance (like the foxtrot, waltz, tango, etc!.) then you, as the guy, will *have* to know how to lead!.

Either way, I'd take some dance classes ASAP, or have someone older help you learn a few steps, as it will increase your confidence tremendously, and make the experience more enjoyable!. Women love a guy who can dance well, as it tends to hint that fun physical things will be happening later on, if you follow my meaning!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Just go to the beat of the music playing!. Watch what the others do, and usually yeah the girls seem to do alot more work than the boys!

But just remember to have fun, there's bound to be people in the same situation as yourself, just try and relax and if a girl asks you to dance just smile and tell her your not really a confident dancer, she should understand, she may not be either!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Watch the movie Hitch! You don't need to get fancy when you dance, all you need to do is be able to step from side to side to the beat!. Practice doing that!. I dance a lot and go to a lot of clubs and you would be surprised how many guys still just move from side to side!. Go rent that movie!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Aww bless!.
Dancing is kind of natural, as long as it's not like hip hop or anything!.
Just hold her lower back and sort of sway in her rhythm!.
Or if you're stood with a group of mates, you generally wouldn't all be dancing but if you are, then sort of stick your thumbs in your jeans pockets and kind of sway, but subtly, as if you're not aware of it and it's natural!.
Good luck (:Www@QuestionHome@Com

all you gotta do is 2 step!. Just sit there with your drink!. It's easy for guys!. They don't have to do anything!. Just stand there and look pretty

you can't be much worse than my best friend!. he messed up the cabbage patch!. then he started doing the robot!. he better be glad he's cuteWww@QuestionHome@Com

Aww it's not embarrassing hun trust me I helped a few guys!. Well instead of giving u a story let me get to the point!. I'm 19 so I know everyone now-a-days just whines and grinds!. So put your hands on the girls hips and use ur lower body (pelvis) to follow her movements!. Don't put all ur weight on her let her press up against u so you feel her more than wat she feels u!. Let her lead and u follow and ur good to go!. Trust me girls don't expect guys to be perfect!. You'll be fine if you follow her movements ;]Www@QuestionHome@Com

i was worried the first time i went to my first sweet 16 about a month ago and it is easy!. all you do is put your hands on here waist and move your "area" back and forth!. just don't over think it and you will do fine!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

what i usually do is get wasted enough to where i dont care if i look like a retard then find the drunkest chick i can and dance with her, easy money my friendWww@QuestionHome@Com

Haha :]<3

Everyone has their own unique way of dancing!. Just turn on some music and move it!. It comes naturally!.

Or you could just swing your hips from side to side, that's what most guys do!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

let the beat of the music take you, sway to the rythum and the beat!. good luck, and have fun!!!Www@QuestionHome@Com

Go on youtube and look for ways to dance on there im sureyou will be able to find something!. I'm a 17 year old girl and i have not the first clue on how to danceWww@QuestionHome@Com

Really don't worry about it!. It will all come naturally, and its not like your going to be doing any hard stuff!. :)Www@QuestionHome@Com

shake your dick on her neck and blow your bad breath in her face and speak a diff language and hump her legsWww@QuestionHome@Com

hahaa its okay!! just go with the music! im suree you will do fine!.!. i wish you best of luck my friend!. have fun (:Www@QuestionHome@Com

move your penis up and down and side to side that should do the trick, ay

let me know how it works out then call meWww@QuestionHome@Com