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Position:Home>Dancing> How to enjoy clubbing?Question: How to enjoy clubbing!? i honestly don't like to go clubbing and i don' drink!. plus i don't really know how to dance (i know whats going through your mind now)!.
my gf said she at least wants to go clubbing with me once!. the thing is, i'm too tense, i think alot and i dont see a point in clubbing!. how do i loosen up without alcohol!? can u even have fun without being slightly influenced!? most importantly, HOW DO YOU DANCE!?!?!? thank youWww@QuestionHome@Com Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: in all honesty, if it isn't your style, then nothing is going to make you enjoy it!. I am a dancer and I hate clubbing! But if your girlfriend wants you to go, that's a tough one and you probably will end up going--in which case just hold on to your girlfriend and follow her lead!. Everyone feels pretty goofy the first half an hour in a club but you look around and get the feel of the atmosphere, realize that no one is looking right at you and it gets to be alright!. Hope this helps and good luck!Www@QuestionHome@Com Clubing envolves the atmosphere you want to be in!. If you are with your gf that is a good start, you'll have fun with her!. But she has to understand that if you feel uncomfortable dancing she should not pull you into the spotlight!. It is okay that you do not dance, actually some men do not!. I think you are not enjoying yourself because you feel as though you are standing out like a sore thumb!. No worries, its always okay to just chill, think John Travolta SNF, if you find a rhythm in a song that makes you tap your foot just go with it!. Strawberry Daquiris are a go so are Pina Coladas virgin (no alchohol)!. Dress nice and be confident!. Relax!Www@QuestionHome@Com just let all your thoughts and woorys out of your head first of all! if you want a drink of alcohol have one it can loosen you up a bit but you don't have to! throw your hands up in the air an shake aound a bit and after a while you'll be into it and you'll natrually start dancing and won't care wat anyone thinks of you! just shake it and let it go! Www@QuestionHome@Com most of all you need to relax!. you can't dance when you are all tense up!. walk around see who's there, get the feel for it!. look how others are dancing, everyone sort of plays off of each other!. just go with it, because you will look worse just standing there doing nothing!. remember its just a movement of the body, like walking!. no one is really watching you , they are busy with their own thoughts!. good luck!. Www@QuestionHome@Com |