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Question: What's expected of me at homecoming!?
I've never been to homecoming before (I am a junior) I've just never bothered to go!. There is this girl I am going to ask to go with me, but I have never asked a girl to a dance before either!. What I don't know is:
how is it best to ask her!? What is expected of me after I ask her!? (i!.e!. do I need to pick her up, what should I wear to homecoming, what is expected of me at the dance) Basically, I need a wide range of advice on how to go through with this!. Thanks in advance!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
First piece of advice: be nonchalant about asking a girl (to dance, to go to the dance, anything)!. Most of the guys I know ask a girl out by just showing up, asking them and leaving!. asking a girl out hit and run style is really weird for the girl!.!.!. We tend to get really freaked out and uncomfortable!.!.!.
As for picking the girl up, simply ask the girl if she needs a ride!.
Some schools are more serious about homecoming than others!. At my school, most guys dress in khakis, a button up shirt and a tie!. It really depends on the school!. It would be really sweet of you to buy the ticket to the dance!.!.!.
It depends on how well you know the girl, but dancing is often a cure for awkward conversation!. also, when a girl goes to the bathroom with a flock of her friends, it is either a really bad sign, or a really good sign!. Because the girls are either talking about you in a good way or a bad way!.
I hope this helps!.!.!. and that the girl says yes!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

Ok, just relax and breath!.!. haha
It would be best if you were friends with the girl, or are at least talk to her sometimes so it's not weird and awkward when you ask her!. When you do ask her, I would go with a casual approach!. Unless you really want to impress her or something, ask her with a flower!. After you ask her, just continue to talk to her as before!. Although, you will have to ask her sometime what color her dress is so you can find a tie to match!. That's what you wear by the way: dress pants, nice shoes, long sleeved button-up shirt with the matching tie!. And then you get her a corsage if she wants you to!. At the dance, just be nice to her and dance with her!. It's not like the two of you need to be attached every minute!. Just enjoy yourselves!.
:)

Wow, that was long!. But i really hope i helped!.
Good Luck!Www@QuestionHome@Com