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Question: Need help planning for the next dance!!?
For the first dance of the year with a bunch of schools my school didn't really do a lot of dancing!. My friends saw some boys and girl slow dancing and they were laughing!. I was actually gonna ask someone but then I didn't because 1!. he would probably say no after that 2!. I would say no if someone asked too (lol)!. also, this one girl was flirting MAJORLY with the boy I really like and the boy I sorta like!. She was wearing tight shirts and short shorts while I was wearing a abercrombie shirt and jeans (it wasn't formal)!. So I need help planning for the next dance!.

Questions:
1!. What to wear!?
I was thinking of buying a skirt and a tank + shirt for a layered look!. Any other ideas!? Please post pics or links if you can!.

2!. How to ask someone to dance!.!.!.!?
I was thinking maybe talking to him on aim and leading him into a conversation and just sayin "hey we could dance together" or something, any ideas!?

3!. How to get the older girl to NOT be around him and stay away not flirting with my guy (lol)!?
Maybe telling her to hang out with her own friends!.!.!.!?

Any other ideas to really impress him and still stay in boundaries becuz there are like 3 adults there :p

I will give the best answer to someone who answers all the questions and gives realistic advice!.

Now dont say be yourself becuz being myself would mean shutting up not talking to him and trying to avoid him so I dont screw up

I am not at all outgoing tho I wish I was, so any advice there would be good too!.
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Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
ok, so here are a few ideas of mine (and i'm sorry if they don't work out for you!.!.!.)
ok, just wondering first of all!.!.!. what grade r u in!? jw!.!.
1!. skirt is a good idea, but the whole tank and tee thing!.!.!. u can do it if u want!.!.!. here is what i normally do!.!.!. if that girl was all over the guy u like in her short shorts and tight top, don't go slutty back, but accent ur accets!. umpire waists can really flatter a lot of body types!.!.!. they also draw attention to the chest!.!.!. and if you are ever self consious about your stomach, a umpire waist with a flowy bottom is a great way to not feel like you have to suck it up every three seconds!. a skirt would look nice!.
here are just a few examples i found online!.!.!.
http://img!.auctiva!.com/imgdata/2/9/9/1/8!.!.!.
http://cn1!.kaboodle!.com/hi/img/2/0/0/8b/!.!.!.
ok, number two!.!.!. mostly, the best way really is to just ask!. just walk up and go, hey, u wanna dance!? a convo might be better first, that way its not so random!.!.!.
3!. when it comes to older girls, all i can say is good luck!. try to show up and start talking whenever she starts hanging on him, but if ur younger, telling her to back off probably won't go over too well!.!.!.
to impress him!.!.!. start dancing!. if ur friends refuse too, find some other people to dance with!. if u look like ur having fun, then chances are, he will want to have fun too!.
-but really, how old r u!? just cuz i am in high school, and i haven't been around people who don't dance since like 7th grade!. really, the whole slow dancing thing, and people laughing!? immature! next dance, if ur friends start doing that, ask, "what, do boys still have cooties!?" go to a high school dance!.!.!. slow dancing will probably be the most appropriate thing you will see!. good luck! i know what u mean on the whole "be yourself" thing!. sometimes it works!.!.!. sometimes it really doesn't!. i am totally guy shy, and ended up with a date to homecoming, cuz i just asked and he said yes!. so sometimes, you just have to be bold and remember!.!.!. everyone gets rejected!. it may be embarrassing, and hurt, but in a few years it won't matter and youll be more confident!. i hope this helps! have fun! Www@QuestionHome@Com