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Question: How to overcome shyness at dances!?
Sooo!.!.well!. I'm really a pretty outgoing person!. I'm freaking crazy and I'm just!.!.weird!. I always make my friends laugh because I'm super hyper, but not annoyingly hyper!. Anyways, the only time I become really shy is at dances!. I can dance a little, move to the beat and all, but I cannot fully relax and move my hips and shizz!.!.unless!.!.I consume alcohol or something ahah!. Anyways!.!.how do I get over my shyness at dances!? I just want to cut lose and fly around like a madwoman! I really get awkward when guys dance with me!. They are basically dry humping you, and I'm shy around guys, soo!.!.I feel super awkward grinding into their pelvic area aha!. Yesterday I had homecoming(I'm a senior, and I'm still shy), and this dude I'm really crushing on grabbed my hand and asked me to dance, I straight up said "No, I can't!. I'm way too shy around you!." because I was too nervous!. HOW LAMEEEEE!?

So wtf do I do!.!.how do I get over this!.!.without any illegal substances!.!.or alcohol hah!? HELPPPP!.Www@QuestionHome@Com


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker:
Just tell yourself that you can do it, instead of reasoning with yourself even beforehand why you might act a certain way!. You're just dancing, it's not like you're doing anything wrong!.
Besides, if you act confident, creepy guys will probably see you as less of a target than someone who comes off as less confident!.Www@QuestionHome@Com

I am exactly like you, i am so shy i sound like a mouse when talking to people idk!. What i found works best is when you just GO FOR IT! even if what you do it COMPLETELY STUPID everyone doesnt care! SERIOUSlY!
Good lucK!Www@QuestionHome@Com

just relax and dances are supposed to be fun!. Don't worry about looking awkward cuz if you are having fun that is all that matters!. Www@QuestionHome@Com

just have fun!
relax and enjoy! (but stilll take responsibility!)
dont stress about the little things
cause lifes too short to regret those (=Www@QuestionHome@Com

you just need to lose yourself in the music!.!.!. and all that s***!.!.!.Www@QuestionHome@Com