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Question:I went clubbing once before with one of my friends (female), and by the end of the night I'd say we had at least 20 guys try to dance with us, and 10 that asked but we said no thank you.

There was only one decent guy who didn't try to touch my butt and other parts of me, but the rest did. After a minute or two, we'd always say "I have to go to the bathroom," so we could get away.

Is there any way to not have them dance with us in the first place? Because it was pretty obvious that the two of us were sticking together, but they'd just pull us apart.

I'm going out again soon, so maybe I won't have to deal with that again. Thanks.


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I went clubbing once before with one of my friends (female), and by the end of the night I'd say we had at least 20 guys try to dance with us, and 10 that asked but we said no thank you.

There was only one decent guy who didn't try to touch my butt and other parts of me, but the rest did. After a minute or two, we'd always say "I have to go to the bathroom," so we could get away.

Is there any way to not have them dance with us in the first place? Because it was pretty obvious that the two of us were sticking together, but they'd just pull us apart.

I'm going out again soon, so maybe I won't have to deal with that again. Thanks.

lol that happens to me everytime .. when it does i just push them away [= or just ignore them and keep dancing with my freends [= ? kate

thats what most guys do there.

Eat chili-dogs and spicy Indian food, and let your butt do the talkin'

Make out with your friend, that way they might get the point. Or don't go in the middle with all the guys, stick to the outside. Sorry that happened tho!

Get uglier, dont go, or say your gay

well just dont dance with them...
dance with your friends and if a guy asks for a dance then say "no thanks im having plenty of fun heree, haha"

Okay so don't say your "gay" b/c that just makes them want you more... I just walk to another part of the club... and keep dancing if they follow you... tell them you were once a guy and you had a sex change... heh j/k