I can't dance and i'm stiff when it comes to it, does that make me a les

Question:family members say i'm so stiff when it comes to dancing that it takes away sexiness, is this true that in order to be considered sexy you have to know how to dance?

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I think that you don't have to know how to dance to be sexy. You can do whatever you please with out dancing. I can't dance just only when I feel hyper at home. The most song I dance to is Beyonce. My sister tries to be sexy but it doesn't help. So you don't have to feel sad that you are stiff because most people are to so your not by yourself. Most people think it is but my mom told me its just tring to be fast like a bust. I'm telling you right now, don't copy them people.ESPECIALLY TEENAGERS.

umm no

no not everyone has it when it comes to dancing

HELL YES!!

for me yes. but everybody has got different taste

definately!!

You know what is sexy? Listening to the beat of your own drum. Not needing someone else's opinion how sexy you are.

You can be sexy in other ways... lots of sexy people don't know how to dance. ^_^

I think I'm sexy, and I'm TERRIBLE at dancing.

When you picture "white guy dancing"
That's me!

You can be sexy without having to know how to dance.

Only when you're dancing.

YES, you halfwit.

No i dont think so. I cant dance at all but my girlfriend can. She does not think less of me at all but loves me more because i told her the truth that i cant dance. But i love to go out to clubs and stuff and have fun

no dis is not true at all. there are many sexy people out there who dont know how to dance. and dance is not a problem cuz u cn learn how to dance any time you want!

If u wanna be sexy, just be good at being sexy. U don't need to dance.

NO, I CANt dance either. i just watch. it 1000's of people just like you including me

no.. lol just learn how to dance:]

It means you have better things to do than to prance around on the dance floor. Good for you.

No way! Some people are made for dance while others are not. Plus, when it comes to guys, a girl can be "sexy" for many reasons.
The are smart.
They are funny.
They are good looking.
They are wise.
They are kind.
And the list goes on!
If you enjoy dancing, then DANCE! It's one of those things that you do simply because it puts a smile on your face.
And, I guarantee you, the more you dance, the less "stiff" you'll be.
Just keep dancing!

nope, but it does help. You have to feel the rhythm of the music your dancing to. You have to use your body to express yourself. It takes practice and attitude and a willingness to let go.

don't worry i cant dance either.. lol
and to answer your question no u don't have to know how to dance to be considered sexy..
being sexy includes your personality, the way u think of yourself, and just body image..
dancing just adds to all that..

I could never dance either, because I was so stiff, but my husband loved to dance, and did all the time, until we started dating, and because I couldn't dance, he gave it up, and we have been married for 46 years, so being sexy has nothing to do with it.

Well, actually, yes. But, you don't have to know how to dance to be considered sexy -- just don't ever get on the dance floor and you'll be fine.

Anthropologists note that dancing is an integral part of the mating ritual for many cultures, and dancing served two purposes for people -- worshiping their gods, or to select a mate. The better the dancer, the better the potential mate. Dancing is sensual.

Belly dancing is actually a dance to show prospective mates how competent a woman is at, well, moving her body for you-know-what, and that she has exercised her body for childbearing.

Dancing as a mating ritual dates back to early man -- even birds and other animals do it -- and is part of human nature to see a good dancer as sexually more potent and important than a non-dancer.

Whether someone realizes it or now, they are unconsciously relating dancing skills to mating (everyone does it), and there is something inherently appealing in seeing a person -- particularly a woman -- with sensual, fluid movements.

So, sorry to say, your family members are correct.

It doesn't make you a less sexy person, it just makes you LOOK like a less sexy person -- and of course most people judge other people on how the look, move, etc.

And yeah, Suzy Cutes is right -- dancing is related to sex and mating (which is why it has been banned by a lot of religions) so there is the psychological aspect of judging someone to be sexual or sensual based on their ability to dance and move their body.

No way, Daisy. My Hubby can't dance and I think he is the sexiest person on earth. You're just fine the way you are.

not really

no you can look pretty..check out my question

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