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Question:Is it okay if you dont know the person your slow dancing with well, can you just ask them a lot of questions like... whats your fav color, fav music etc?... what do girls like in a guy while slow dancing?


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Is it okay if you dont know the person your slow dancing with well, can you just ask them a lot of questions like... whats your fav color, fav music etc?... what do girls like in a guy while slow dancing?

yeah like if its one of those snowball things were you choose a random partner or something don't started saying "whats your favorite color? do you like vitamin water? do you have any pets? what sports do you play?" Thats a NOOO WAY... say things like "hey do i know you? do you go to my school? Wait do you play _____ sport that they look like they might play... stuff like that be casual. don't be all intense just CHILL and it'll come to you

Don't grope them ya perv. They liked to have their feet stepped on. Then outta nowhere bust out the full body wave ala 1985.

I think that kind of conversation is a bit over the top for that situation. You should at least start with less interrogative conversation. Make a comment about the venue, her outfit, the song that's playing, something about yourself, whatever, and follow up w/a question if it seems natural. The conversation should flow, if you have to go to questions like what's your favorite color it will seem strained and awkward.

Depending on who you are and the mood, I do like to learn more about the person and ask them questions. Other times, I like the quiet because it means something - at least to me.

I just wouldn't really appreciate it if, every time I slow danced with a guy, he was always talking or asking me questions.

keep it in yer pants!