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Question:This is my first dance with a date and he is a senior! I don't want to look like a stupid little sophmore help! How do I do it and how do I feel confident enough in myself to be able to? If you tell me to look on youtube will you please tell me a specific video to watch!


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: This is my first dance with a date and he is a senior! I don't want to look like a stupid little sophmore help! How do I do it and how do I feel confident enough in myself to be able to? If you tell me to look on youtube will you please tell me a specific video to watch!

Have You ever had sex before???

Yes?? then you know how to grind
No??
Ok, then have you ever seen sex on TV (rated R or
worse or whatever)
Yes?? Then you know how to grind
No?? Then you you need to get out more

Furthermore being a good dancer isn't about how well you can simulate sex (b/c that's what grindin is). It's about your swagger and your confidence level. It sounds like to me you need to learn how pull you shoulders back, stick your chest out, and put your head up and just strut, cuz you can't grind all nite, it just makes u look stupid

Just grind your junk into his junk. Guys at that age dont care for anything more sophisticated then that.

Show yourself respect, don't dance dirty or grind. dance fun, loose ... but please, don't freak dance! if your date doesn't respect you for it, then all he wanted was to get under your pants (or in this case, dress).

Exactly.......... just have a little rythim .....and Grind him.....
.....If you do that..... He will be happy.....
Thats what I like........ if you don't.....
you better know how to dance......
No1 wants to dance with a girl whos not grinding........and doesn't know how to dance...... :)

it really doesnt take much skill or effort. even if you barelyknow how to dance, as long as you have rythm, you'll be fine. just go with music, move your body to the beat. you can move your hips side to side or move them in circles. guys dont care that much as long as you dont dance like a robot then you should be fine

uhh i need help with this too! :[

First, don;t do it unless he brings it up and you're interested in cooperating. Otherwise it comes across as a lapdance. That said, if you'r both into it, guys are very visual, so practice at home and make sure, even if you arent all that great, you look like you know youre hot. As long as you keep the beat, guys aren't too specific.