DIRTY dancing..TOO dirty?!?!?

Question:I looooveee dances
Im 16 almost 17, and apparently i dance reallly good
I love to grind and get dirty, and just have fun. Nothing serious..
I don't have a boyfriend, and neither do the people I am dancing with do. I am very sympathetic if my friend likes a guy, I wont dance with them, even though sometimes they try and dance with me. I'm just wondering if I should tone it down a little.
Usually at a normal high school dance or any other dance I will dance with about 5 different guys (grinding) just for fun. I love it. But I NEVER will hook up with them..because i mean everyone is watching.
Are my dancing habbits ok? Should I tone it down? I'm just wanting your honest opinion. THANKS =)

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I looooveee dances
Im 16 almost 17, and apparently i dance reallly good
I love to grind and get dirty, and just have fun. Nothing serious..
I don't have a boyfriend, and neither do the people I am dancing with do. I am very sympathetic if my friend likes a guy, I wont dance with them, even though sometimes they try and dance with me. I'm just wondering if I should tone it down a little.
Usually at a normal high school dance or any other dance I will dance with about 5 different guys (grinding) just for fun. I love it. But I NEVER will hook up with them..because i mean everyone is watching.
Are my dancing habbits ok? Should I tone it down? I'm just wanting your honest opinion. THANKS =)

sounds like your level headed and just like to have fun...unfortunately others might view this dirty dancing like you are loose...good for you for respecting your friends if they like a guy...just have fun with it and don't put too much into others thinking..they might be wishing they were having as much fun as you are...

That's like sex on the dancefloor.

what a dumd question only you would know that

no i think your fine, if you think of it all dancing is dirty it really depends on music too. As long as your sensitive to others and respect them.

follow what your heart says.

grinding ona guy is ALWAYS sexual. its a HUGE turnon for me, and it gets ahard stiff rise out of me everytime. but heres a question back at u...

if its just for fun an not serious, do u grind on girls? u or y not?

i think you should go ahead and have fun......as long as you don't sleep with all the guys you dance with it's fine.

i would tone iit down a bit

I agree with Sara Bara, follow what your heart says, and trust yourself with what you believe.

Hhmmm....Do what you want! Your young, so erm...yeh do what you want, BUT do think about the feelings of the guy you dance with, the girls around you, and stuff...cuz you never kno, you might get yourself in a bit of a mess if one of these guys you dance with think you're serious...when you just think of them as a dance partner
so...yeh follow ur heart like what someone else said b4 :)

i think ur just having fun
ur dancing habits are ok cuz they're kinda like mine lol
but just be respectful to the people around you that's very important
have fun but don't make people around you feel awkward or uncomfortable

I think grinding is gross. Do you want a guy to look at you and think "sexy"? All his mind is on is your body... not YOU. Please tone it down.

Being a flirt is fun, isn't it? :)

Enjoy it. Be care-free.

In time, you will probably hook up with someone.

My advice would be to hook up with someone who is not going to be jealous about your dance preferences and to be open about it. Believe me, that is easier said than done! :)

If you find a guy who can handle your lifestyle and is compatible with you in other areas, you'll be happy.

And it truthfully doesn't matter whether it's a dirty dance, a slow dance, or any other partner dance. It's more about the attention you give to the other person.

You should dance with everyone. Boyfriend/girlfriend or not. :)

The last thing guys want is to be rejected for any reason. As long as you make it clear that you are simply a flirt who loves to dance, you should be fine.

Keep dancing!