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Question:hey.. my school's winter formal is coming up and its where the girl asks the guy.. i already asked someone and he said yes.

but idk how to dance! at all. and im sure he wont be the greatest dancer so dose anyone know of any particular sites!?

(i already searced youtube)

and by dancing i obviously mean bumping/grinding/dancing to rap.

and any tips for slow dancing!


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: hey.. my school's winter formal is coming up and its where the girl asks the guy.. i already asked someone and he said yes.

but idk how to dance! at all. and im sure he wont be the greatest dancer so dose anyone know of any particular sites!?

(i already searced youtube)

and by dancing i obviously mean bumping/grinding/dancing to rap.

and any tips for slow dancing!

Heres the deal: watch people when you get to the dance, I know you would rather be prepared now... but you just can't really. Make sure you give a little time before you hop on the dance floor... once everyone is into it, they wont even notice anyone else. So you just slip into the crowd a little bit, with your guy... and do what everyone else does. people just move their hips in my experience, and it works! If you just get into it, and forget other stuff, it'll be fun. you can mix it up after you have a basic movement down. I was all worried about what to do the first time... but it just works out

HAVE FUN!

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sorry i missed your last question. slow dancing: just hold your man and sway side to side along with him. place your arms up over his shoulders, or hold his shoulders. Look up at him! (assuming he's taller, haha). but just looking up into his eyes is cool, and also resting your head on his chest is really chill. relax for this part. but try to read if its a situation for a kiss? no pressure... but it does happen when slow dancing.

Hi,
In my experience, all formal dancing is shot to hell at these things. We always just ended up in a group, hands in the air, and like you said- sort of weird grinding. It's strange, and I wouldn't do it now, but you sort of just get a rythm! I wouldn't worry about it, because no one else is a classically trained ballroom dancer, and even if they are, it's not the place for it!
I'd try searching for dance tips, or search by the name of a specific dance to get the method.
have fun at your dance.

THE RULE FOR DANCING IS MOVE AND DANCE LIKE NOT A SOUL IS AROUND AND YOU ARE THE ONLY OE THAT CAN SEE IT IT IS ALL FUN HAVE FUN DON'T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF