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Question:I have attempted to grind more than once and I just can't seem to get good at it. When I do it, it doesn't looks good. I would really like to learn to grind dance and I am having alot of trouble, I am having another school dance and no doubt about it there will be grinding. Please help me learn. I have tried the Perreo also, this is even worse as it is alot more complicated.. :( Help me learn? Ten points!


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: I have attempted to grind more than once and I just can't seem to get good at it. When I do it, it doesn't looks good. I would really like to learn to grind dance and I am having alot of trouble, I am having another school dance and no doubt about it there will be grinding. Please help me learn. I have tried the Perreo also, this is even worse as it is alot more complicated.. :( Help me learn? Ten points!

From the front or back? LoL! Cause I guess you can do it either way, but I prefer back, less awkward, so here's what I do...

They only way you can suck at this is if you don't feel comfortable in your own skin... So the best thing to do with that is to turn on grinding like songs (freek-a-leek, gets me going) and practice in your room. With or with out mirror, whatever you like best. And practice shaking your hips, try different things with them or practice body/rib rolls. You can practice Beyonce style, by shaking your booty back and forth with your arms out in front of you or Shakira style, by shaking side to side as fast as you like and using your tummy to add a sexiness to it... You know what I mean?

Just practice! You look better when you practice a few times before going out on the dance floor.

Also! It doesn't really matter what you do when you are grinding as long as you feel good about it and he's digging you awkward or not. Make sure you are in the middle of the crowd so that you feel less awkward and be hyper! When you are hyper, you have fun and you wont care about it, you'll just do it and he will love it. Guys love a girl having fun all the way! It's hott when a girl is all into it! Trust me!

Im sure no one really cares how you "grind". Sure as hell the boy you are grinding on doesnt care. I was dancing with a girl the other day, and for sure i wasnt paying attention to how she was grinding. Most boys are like me, they probably dont care, just as long as they have someone to do it with.

just relax and dont think about it...hmm maybe try getting like hyper before the dance...request songs you really like and can dance to...and also think about the guy, grinding feels good on the guys cockadoodledoo so try moves that will almost massage it for him...BOOTY DROP FOR HIM TOO...hed like that. dont worry about how you look...chances are everyone else is worried about themselves and wont be watching you, just go with the flow...also getting in with a group is less akward then grinding with someone in the middle of nowhere...get a lot of ppl to do it with you then just have some fun

true dat.

be sexy. like me. hah justt kiddding but i love grinding.

with grinding there is no right way to do it but there is wrong. The wrongs: If you want to do it because you feel you have to do it, (this may sound gay) peer pressure- you want to look cool for your friends or that guy. Also when you grind it is an impulse, like dancing, if you're into the song than it'll come naturally or if you're into that boy oooh la la! But if you have to think before you do it than don't do it because you're forcing yourself. By the way the guy doesn't care. Play some musoc in your house and pretend there's an imaginary guy there.

Just do what you know how to do. Or just if you want to really learn, all you have to do is shake your butt, and make sure you are doing it to a boy.