Goin to a club for my first time and, do i ask or do i not ask?

Question:so in high school when u'd go to a dance, u knew most of the people and so when i saw a friend i was like "hey u wanna dance". but now it's off to a club and i want to know the best approach. do i do like in high school and ASK the girl to dance... or if shes on the floor do i just start dancing with her. girls what do u prefer?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: so in high school when u'd go to a dance, u knew most of the people and so when i saw a friend i was like "hey u wanna dance". but now it's off to a club and i want to know the best approach. do i do like in high school and ASK the girl to dance... or if shes on the floor do i just start dancing with her. girls what do u prefer?

ahaha I couldn't resist......

watch this!!!!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrXA2nFoF...
(Dane Cook Just wanna dance)

You just start dancing, if they're not interested, they'll walk away.

In a club situation the best thing to do is if you see a girl you like, just talk to her for a little bit and get to know her. Then let her know that you love coming to the clubs cause you like dancing. Then see what she says. Its always been creepy to me when a guy just starts dancing up on me....I always moved away. And the whole asking, "Do you wanna dance?" thing is kinda gay.

just start dancing with her..

sometimes the girl will just walk away from you.. don't take offense she just wants to dance with her girls..

if she does that.. just move on to the next dont chase.

just ask.

Both really...it depends on how crowded the place is, if the music is so good you rarely sit down, or is it an off night? It all depends...but I think being asked is nice.

i would say just start dancing with her like booty dancing =) i like that

Ask!!!!!
first make eye contact if you get positive reactions and looks back
"Hi my name is .....i saw you from across the other side of the room i was wanting to know did you want to dance with me?
good luck!

Wait until you get a good vibe off of someone, if you think you might have a chance, ask or if you just want to have a good time and don't care about getting to know someone, just get up and start dancing. Everyone's there to have a good time, so have fun. Just don't be too aggressive.

just start busting moves but make sure their no guy with her or you will get beat up like back in highschool

on the floor=dance
not=talk then ask

well, i bet within the first hour in the club,
you'll know what to do.
just look at the other people.
nobody at a club has ever asked me to dance,
but personally, i think thatd be awkward.
mainly im just dancing with my friends,
& a random guy will rub his pelvic area up down & around my butt.
sometimes its annoying,
but i've gotten used to it,
it's the club scene.
its best to just go to the club with a bunch of your friends if your nervous at first,
so that you dont have to dance with other girls if you chicken out.
but iuno, i've only been to clubs in sweden & poland before.
i'm too young to go to clubs in the united states.

it depends some girls u can tell wont care but ive stopped going 2 clubs when guys danced with me without asking or started grinding up on me. i still have fears from 1 experience when i was pulled toward different guys at the same time n my friends told them im taken, no 1 would listen. if u just asked who knows... i might have said yes dont ASSume n make an *** out of yourself