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Position:Home>Dancing> Can you still dance with a girl if she came with a date at Homecoming?Question:Today is my homecoming. There's this girl I was going to ask about three weeks ago to go with me, but another guy I knew pretty well was going to ask her, and she found out. And she did not want to go with him because she doesn't really talk to him that much. At that time, I only talked to her a little more than that guy did, so I decided to not ask her yet and just become better friends, which worked. We've been talking a lot more now and have become better friends. I was just going to dance with her at Homecoming (since asking her a week before seems tacky). But then I found out two days ago that she has a Homecoming date that she does not want to go with at all. I guess a week or two ago, she and some other people were at this girl's house. It was 30 minutes until she had to be home, and she was about 30 away from home, so she had to hurry. But this gay emo kid parked behind her, and wouldn't let her out unless she went to Homecoming with him. Since she was in a hurry, she said yes so she could be home on time. But she does not want to go with him at all. She even thought about skipping Homecoming so she wouldn’t have to go with him. There’s even a big rumor he’s going to ask her out (and she said she will definitely say NO to him). So can I still dance with her at the dance? Keep in mind her date is someone she really doesn’t like, a gay emo kid, and tries to make fun of the football team. As a varsity football player, our whole team hates him (with the exception of like 2 people). Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Today is my homecoming. There's this girl I was going to ask about three weeks ago to go with me, but another guy I knew pretty well was going to ask her, and she found out. And she did not want to go with him because she doesn't really talk to him that much. At that time, I only talked to her a little more than that guy did, so I decided to not ask her yet and just become better friends, which worked. We've been talking a lot more now and have become better friends. I was just going to dance with her at Homecoming (since asking her a week before seems tacky). But then I found out two days ago that she has a Homecoming date that she does not want to go with at all. I guess a week or two ago, she and some other people were at this girl's house. It was 30 minutes until she had to be home, and she was about 30 away from home, so she had to hurry. But this gay emo kid parked behind her, and wouldn't let her out unless she went to Homecoming with him. Since she was in a hurry, she said yes so she could be home on time. But she does not want to go with him at all. She even thought about skipping Homecoming so she wouldn’t have to go with him. There’s even a big rumor he’s going to ask her out (and she said she will definitely say NO to him). So can I still dance with her at the dance? Keep in mind her date is someone she really doesn’t like, a gay emo kid, and tries to make fun of the football team. As a varsity football player, our whole team hates him (with the exception of like 2 people). Yes, a dance is just a dance..... "ya gotta sing, like you dont need the money, you should love, like you'll never be hurt - If you dance- DANCE like no body's watching - It's gotta come from your heart, If you're gonna make it work" yeah its fine.. hes gay unless u werent literally saying hes gay in that case no its not alright Why would a gay guy ask a girl to the dance? That's strange cause I thought a gay guy would like a guy. Anyways, it depends on the person. If it's fine with the girl and her date then it would be fine to dance with her. But keep in mind that she is going with a date, so if he has a problem with you dancing with her, then you'll have to respect the fact that she is his date. I would guess that she probably wouldn't want to dance with you either as you don't sound like a particularly nice or confident guy but maybe that's just because you sound jealous or that you need to tell people that you're a football player, which really doesn't have anything to do with the situation at all. She'd probably like you more if you didn't make nasty comments and learned to get over yourself. Otherwise I'd say don't waste her time. |