How to grind (dance)?

Question:well i have a dance coming up and i have never grinded with a boy so i was just wondering how to do it.

The thing i'm most scared about is what to do when a boy first asks me to dance with them. Do i immediatley assume that they want to grind or what? And how do i start off do i just go? and what do i do in the rest of it lol?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: well i have a dance coming up and i have never grinded with a boy so i was just wondering how to do it.

The thing i'm most scared about is what to do when a boy first asks me to dance with them. Do i immediatley assume that they want to grind or what? And how do i start off do i just go? and what do i do in the rest of it lol?

some ppl are soooo judgemental of grinding. i don't view it as having sex on the dance floor and NO I'm not a ****.now if you pulling up your skirt and purposely trying to get the guys excited then its different. basically you just dance how you normally would and really close to the guy. its all in the hips, follow his lead and you'll be fine. and you don't have to rub ur butt all on them, grinding facing them is nice cuz you might get a kiss in there. =) have fun!!

i hated seeing all the kids "grinding" at dances and/or clubs. if you must do it its basically acting like your having sex on the dance floor which isnt dancing. most guys expect that kind of dancing unless your lucky and find a nice guy that can actually dance. just relax and dance however you feel comfortable dancing. just feel the beat

That is like sex on the dance floor. I am in high school and the guys at my school hate it when the girls grind on them. Plus the girls look like sluts. I would just do your own thing, just don't grind.

this is the daughter speaking --- they call it winding or grinfding. basically you make a cirle movent with your hips close to the boy i guess dont no how to explain it

u get on a male an u grind

it depends on how it's done to consider it slutty. basically whnei grind both me and my partner are moving b/c otherwise it's not fun. if you can "tick tock" you can wind. all you're doing is moving your hiips in a hard circular motion. now the slutty thing everyone must be talkin about is slow juking which is when it really does look like sex. search on you tube for slow juking and then you'll see what i mean. best of luck to you. just keep it clean lolz.