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In life how do you make the right choices?

well i mean i work in the bar, and people say i wish id of done this when i was your age. i mean im 24, i want to go to uni to study gerography, i want to travel the world, i want to meet the right girl, i want to expllore the meaning of life and i want my own bar in st ives.is all this too much?


Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Owning a bar will stop you from travel, so "X" that off your list.

Think about a career that you can do as a self-employed individual, because Universities only teach you how to work for others, not for your self.

So "X" off the University education from your list as well, you are too much of a leader than you are a follower, so the higher education is not for you.

The underlying meaning of life that your looking for is spiritual, more so than physical, think about this. Why do you need money? To live comfortably. Why live comfortably? To become spiritually satisfied! Hey, you'll end up with the same answer for that "right girl" that your seeking too.

You do feel a bit of that spiritual satisfaction while you are running a bar because you see contentment in many peoples faces. And that feeling gives you your spiritual satisfaction for the moment, but this is fleeting, it will be harder for you to see this especially when you have all those commitments of being the owner of a bar!

You are taking on too much responsibility too soon, you need to stop thinking about pleasing others and think more about yourself, this isn't being selfish really, because when you become that person that satisfies YOU, you will be much more pleasing to the others around you. Take a little vacation away from everyone for a week, be alone with nature, and during this quiet time meditate and pray out there. Get in the water, or near the water, and let your questions fly, and then search for the answers, they are there!

Do this now and don't wait! Everyone use to wait, and then when they reach a certain age what happens to a man is not good, they say they are having Male Menopause, like its a disease. It isn't its a time of looking back to see what's ahead, so do it now ok? You'll find out sooner instead of later.