Ego based love vs pure love?

Question:

Ego based love vs pure love?

I was reading an article about ego based love and how it hurts us. It was saying that we are all connected and we in our minds create this illusionary divide and yearn to fill it with a specialness that causes hurt and heartbreak. I thought it interesting in saying that we go looking for something we already posses. I just wanted to ask a few people what is love to you?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Hurt is only accomplished when we personalize the actions of others.

Some people love me. Some people don't. I could care less which category anyone falls into. Why should I? That is their issue.

Love is merely an emotion that someone feels for me at a specific time. Expecting love to be an everlasting state is highly illogical and very immature.