Help- with a character in my book????

Question:

Help- with a character in my book????

For some time now I've been stuck on what to make a critical character in my novel like.
One of the main characters, Ayamesu, was just found out to be married. He is supposed to reunite with his wife in the next chapter, and I sadly have no clue what to make her like. I still need a name for her, too.
Notes:
Ayamesu's marriage to her was arranged the day he was born. (A few months before she was even born, at that.)
Ayamesu never liked her one bit, the reason being that he was in love with someone else.
Ayamesu dominates the marriage because of the men-in-charge tradition of their family.
Both Ayamesu and the woman he married are royalty.
She is completely oblivious of that fact that Ayamesu never loved her.
She is beautiful.
Ayamesu is stern, strict and stands aside until really needed in situations. In other words, commonly mistook for being cold-hearted and unloving.
So I need some help with deciding the name and personality of the woman. Any thoughts?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: She should be kind but delicate. Ayamesu should not want to hurt her because she is so sweet and innocent. Her name should be Ahlira he something like it.