Is it better to wish or to want?

Question:

Is it better to wish or to want?

Best Answer - Chosen by Asker: Reading some of the responses already, I think a clarification of Wish or Want is required.

What is a wish? It is a dream, and fanciful thought that acknowledges a desire and at the same time acknowledges a resignation to not achieve it.

To want is to actively pursue a wish. To study, develop, grow as required in order to gain your wish. To want something in itself is not bad. To want something recognises that ability of the dreamer to get what they wish for.

When one develops an 'agenda' (i.e. becomes single minded, obsessed) then a want becomes destructive, turns to greed, etc. The dreamer becomes oblivious of the impacts they leave on the world and people around them.

Wishing does not get you anything. Sometimes your wishes may be granted and that is simply luck. Wanting something means you think you can have it. It gives you motivation, drive and purpose. Obsessive desire is the dark side of wanting.

It is better to rationally want than to desperately wish.